I often pray for the desire and strength to do God’s will,
as Mary did. She responded to the angel Gabriel, with one word, “Fiat.” A small
replica of Fra Angelico’s famous painting of the Annunciation is hung on the
wall in my bedroom. On this splendid Feast,
I received a lesson and a great gift.
I awoke
this morning, with a heavy heart. Last
evening, my mother in law reminded me at dinner that she needed to be taken to
Bethesda Naval Hospital to pick up one of her medications. When I ordered the prescription last week, we
had talked about picking it up on the 26th, but I forgot. My
response to her was not kind and was laden with the impression that helping her
with this was a burden.
I tend to be protective of my Monday mornings,
as most often as not, a productive Monday morning leads to a productive week
and non-productivity on Monday leads to the same for the week. I had scheduled a long awaited meeting for
the middle of Monday in Georgetown which would take a huge chunk of the day - something
that I was also viewing as a burden. I
was angry and aggravated with this the need to drive 15 miles to get medicine,
when I can walk to the closest CVS.
While
speaking to a good friend last night about my reaction, I realized that my
mother in law’s most important activity of the week wasn’t even on my
list. My mother in law became a widow
last August, she is elderly, and not in good health. I grasped that I don’t
need to go across the world or even across the street to accomplish Corporal
Works of Mercy in the name of the Lord.
My mother in law is a widow, aging, grieving and ill. That work that I pray to accomplish in the
name of Christ is sitting in my family room.
And so, I resolved to take her to get her medicine before I headed to my
lunch appointment.
At Mass
this morning, my pastor stated that is was obligatory for us to celebrate
today’s feast. With that in mind, I
picked up my mother in law and you would have thought that taking her on this
errand was the equivalent of taking her to Disney World! She was so happy! Her joy was such a wonderful reward and was
humbling.
As my
day progressed, I thought about those words from my pastor, that I was
obligated to celebrate today. I slowed
down my day and thoroughly enjoyed the scrumptious seafood lunch in Georgetown. The friend I met for lunch is a new
Catholic. This is his first Feast of the
Annunciation and we had a wonderful discussion about our faith as well as accomplished
the business at hand.
I then strolled to the Georgetown Cupcake shop. My niece in Michigan has a great fondness for
this shop, although she only knows of it from the television show. I got in
line (outside the store) and was entertained by the employee who would
accurately and deliciously describe each of the cupcake flavors for the
clientele (for instance the difference between vanilla and vanilla
birthday). I purchased a Georgetown cupcake mug to mail my
niece and bought cupcakes for my family for dinner. We don’t normally have dessert during the
week, but we are obligated to celebrate!
Walking
back along the C & O Canal to my car, I thanked Mary for her example and
said a prayer of thanksgiving for the revelation I received about my mother in
law.
Now the only decision left for
the day is, will it be honey banana, cherry blossom or red velvet cake for dessert. I suppose I will be obligated to enjoy it!
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